As we fast approach Mother’s Day here in the UK it is a time to celebrate Mother’s and those who have been like Mother’s to us. As well as a time for us that are Mother’s or like Mothers to others to be celebrated.
But it is safe to say for so many it is a time that can leave us feeling sad and incomplete, when those we love so dearly have passed to the spirit world, you may feel like your celebration is not valid anymore and you can feel so robbed of what you felt you once had. The first thing I want to say is that I see you and feel you and please know no matter how you feel you aren’t alone. There is no divide between our world and the next, we are entwined together, like the sea and the sand they cannot be separated. So those we cherish with all our hearts are around us, safe and well in themselves but supporting us and loving us still.
So many people get in touch and ask me to pass on a message to loved ones who are in the spirit world and my answer is always the same – you don’t need me to pass the message to them, for they can hear you!!!
Because they are still very much with you! The physical body may have died but they very much live on. Energy cannot breakdown and be destroyed, we are all made of energy, there is no death only the simple shedding of the physical body… therefore there is no separation, just as our two worlds are joined together so are we are and even more important always will be!
I recently connected with a young person in the spirit world to communicate for their mother (I have permission to share this anonymously) and their adult child said to me
“Tell Mum all of those graves are empty, she’s not to think of us all being in there on our own, for every single person is in the spirit world together, nobody is alone, we happy"
and at that moment in my mind’s eye I saw the light of the spirit world and everyone together, each connected still with those they loved here. Our loved ones may go ahead of us on a journey we don’t’ always understand but no matter what the circumstances, they are safe and well and very much still alive, we are all very much bonded and connected through love to all those that were always important.
So, as we move towards Mothering Sunday, I wish you all a wonderful, peaceful day and hope you can all feel a little bit of hope and a bit of peace to soothe your soul.
Love recognises no barriers, it jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope. - Maya Angelou